Slow Down, Listen, and Let God Lead

Ephesians 1:17–18 (NLT)

“...asking God, the glorious Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, to give you spiritual wisdom and insight so that you might grow in your knowledge of God.

I pray that your hearts will be flooded with light so that you can understand the confident hope he has given to those he called—his holy people who are his rich and glorious inheritance.”

Psalm 29:11 (NLT)

“The Lord gives his people strength.

The Lord blesses them with peace.”

James 1:19 (NLT)

“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.”

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by life?

There is so much information coming at us every single day. News, social media, opinions, advice, warnings, problems, conversations... and somehow everybody seems convinced that their opinion is the right one!

Sometimes I find myself reacting to life before I have taken the time to ask God what He thinks about it.

Which is a little odd when I stop and think about it.

After all, I have lived enough life to know that following God's plan works a whole lot better than charging ahead with my own ideas! My plans and decisions have occasionally led me straight into a mess that I could have avoided if I had simply stopped, prayed, and listened.

Amen? 😄

And running ahead on our own strength wears us out.

I love the little acronym:

F.R.O.G. — Fully Rely On God.

Because otherwise, we can spend our lives running in circles, wearing ourselves ragged like a dog chasing its own tail!

Today's Scriptures give us a beautiful roadmap for living differently. They remind us that spiritual maturity and true peace are not found by shouting louder than the world around us. They are found by slowing down, quieting our hearts, and allowing God to lead.

1. Know God, Don't Just Know About Him

In Ephesians, Paul prays something interesting for the believers.

He doesn't pray that all their problems will disappear.

He doesn't pray that life will suddenly become easier.

He prays that they will receive spiritual wisdom and insight so they can grow in their knowledge of God.

There is a beautiful meaning behind the Greek word often translated as knowledge here: epignosis.

It means more than simply collecting information.

You can know facts about someone without truly knowing them.

I can read a biography about a famous person and learn where they were born, what they accomplished, and what they believed. But that doesn't mean I know them personally.

Paul is praying for something deeper.

He wants us to know God through experience.

To recognize His faithfulness because we have seen Him provide.

To trust His comfort because we have felt His arms around us during difficult seasons.

To understand His grace because we have needed it desperately.

Ross and I have certainly learned some things about God through experience!

Would we have preferred easier lessons?

Well... probably! 😂

But when you have walked through difficult seasons and discovered that God was faithful every single time, something changes inside you.

You stop simply knowing that God can provide.

You begin to know that He does.

You stop simply reading that God is near to the brokenhearted.

You remember the times when He sat with you in the darkness.

That is the kind of knowledge Paul is praying for.

Not simply knowing about God.

But truly knowing Him.

2. His Strength Brings Us Peace

Psalm 29 describes the incredible power of God.

His voice thunders over the waters. His power shakes the wilderness.

And then, after describing this mighty and powerful God, the Psalm ends with this beautiful promise:

“The Lord gives his people strength. The Lord blesses them with peace.”

The same God powerful enough to command the storms is willing to strengthen His children.

And then He gives us something we desperately need.

Peace.

The Hebrew word for peace is shalom.

But shalom means much more than simply the absence of trouble.

It carries the idea of completeness, wholeness, safety, and well-being.

That means God's peace doesn't require everything around us to be peaceful.

Thank goodness!

Because if we had to wait for life to become completely calm before experiencing peace, some of us might be waiting a very long time! 😄

God's shalom can exist right in the middle of chaos.

The bills may still need to be paid.

The doctor's appointments may still be on the calendar.

The car may still make that strange noise.

The phone may still ring at the worst possible moment.

Life may still be messy.

But in the middle of it all, God can place a deep assurance within us:

“I am here. You are not alone. I have not lost control.”

That is peace.

Not the absence of storms.

But the presence of God in the middle of them.

3. Slow Down Before You React

Then James brings this beautiful spiritual truth right down into everyday life:

“Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.”

Oh goodness.

I think humanity as a whole could use a little practice with this one! 😂

How many times has a thought popped into someone's head and immediately flown right out of their mouth?

No pause.

No filter.

No prayer.

Just... whoosh! There it goes!

And then five minutes later:

“Well, I probably shouldn't have said that.”

When I was teaching our kids to drive, I used to talk to them about reaction time.

Our thoughts move much faster than our words and actions. So when driving, I taught them not to react instantly. Take a moment. Look. Think. Then respond.

That is good advice for much more than driving!

Sometimes we need to slow down before responding to a situation.

Before sending that text.

Before answering that comment.

Before jumping into an argument.

Before assuming we know someone's intentions.

Before letting anger take the steering wheel!

Because reacting quickly often gets us into trouble—not only on the road, but in relationships and in life.

James tells us to be quick to listen.

That requires humility.

Listen to God.

Listen to His Word.

Listen before assuming.

Listen to the person standing in front of you.

Then be slow to speak.

Not silent forever—we all know I would struggle with that one! 😂—but thoughtful.

And finally, be slow to anger.

Anger can make us say things we don't mean and damage relationships we actually value.

A quiet heart gives the Holy Spirit room to work.

Sometimes the wisest thing we can do is simply stop.

Take a breath.

And pray:

“Lord, before I respond... what do You want me to do?”

Putting It All Together

These three Scriptures fit together beautifully.

Ephesians invites us to look upward—seeking a deeper and more personal knowledge of God.

Psalm 29 invites us to look inward—receiving His strength and resting in His peace.

James invites us to look outward—living our daily lives with patience, wisdom, and self-control.

When life becomes noisy, slow down.

When emotions begin rising, pause.

When you don't know what to do, ask God.

When everyone else is reacting, choose to listen.

We do not have to have an immediate opinion about everything.

We do not have to answer every argument.

We do not have to react to every offense.

Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is simply be quiet long enough to hear God.

Because in that quiet place, something beautiful happens.

We begin to recognize His voice.

We experience His shalom.

We receive His strength.

And little by little, through every mountain and every valley, we come to know Him—not simply as the God we have read about, but as our Father who has faithfully walked beside us all along.

So today, when life starts moving too fast and your emotions want to take the wheel, remember:

F.R.O.G.

Fully Rely On God.

Slow down.

Listen.

Pray.

And let God lead.

Amen!

Father, thank You for never becoming overwhelmed by the things that overwhelm us. When life becomes noisy and confusing, help us to slow down and listen for Your voice. Give us spiritual wisdom and insight so that we may grow closer to You and know You more deeply.

Lord, forgive us for the times we have reacted before praying, spoken before thinking, and allowed anger to guide our responses. Teach us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.

When we are weak, be our strength. When life is chaotic, surround us with Your perfect peace. Give us the beautiful shalom that only You can provide—a peace that remains even when circumstances do not.

Lord, I finally understand. I do not want to simply know about You. I want to know You personally. I want to walk beside You, trust Your leading, and fulfill the purpose You have placed on my life.

Slow us down when we are running ahead of You. Quiet our hearts when the world becomes too loud. Help us to Fully Rely On God in every circumstance.

In Jesus' precious name, Amen.

The Lord's Prayer (KJV)

Our Father which art in heaven,

Hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come.

Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. 

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil:

For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever.

Amen.

BELIEVE, OBEY, BE BLESSED.

AMEN. BOBBA ❤️

Love, Penny 💛 

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